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Episodes (250)
Ep 252 – Stressed AF at Work (And You Can't Just Quit)
You're overwhelmed, you're exhausted, and everyone keeps giving you advice that sounds great in theory and does absolutely nothing in real life.This episode is different.
Emily cuts through the fluffy stress management noise and gets into what actually works when you're deep in a hard season at work and leaving isn't an option. No toxic positivity, no oversimplified fixes — just real talk for real people who have real bills to pay.
Today • 33m 17s •
Ep 251 – "I am doing the work of 10 people": Meet The Frankenjob
You've heard of quiet quitting. Now meet its exhausted cousin: the Frankenjob.
If your role feels like five jobs duct-taped together with a smile, this episode is for you. Em breaks down why so many workers are silently drowning in impossible workloads — and what you can actually do about it.
7 days ago • 25m 43s •
Ep 250 – Okay So Here's How the Book Actually Happened
This still doesn't feel real. CLOCK IN IS HERE!
Let's talk about how the heck I actually ended up writing a careers book. What I learned, what failed, what I felt. All of it!
14 days ago • 34m 13s •
Ep 249 – The big fat red flags to watch out for in interviews (these companies are crazy)
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Job interviews are not just about whether they like you — they are also about whether you should like them.
In this episode, we’re talking about the biggest interview red flags that tell you a company may be disorganized, underpaying, overworking people, or quietly looking for someone to “fix” a dumpster fire with no support.
From vague job descriptions to weird culture comments, unpaid take-home assignments, rushed hiring timelines, and managers who proudly admit the team is “like a family,” these are the signs I want you to notice before you accept the offer.
21 days ago • 27m 27s •
Ep 248 – Lost Your Confidence at Work? Here’s How to Get It Back
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Lost your confidence at work? Whether it was a toxic boss, being micromanaged, or making a mistake that shook you, this episode breaks down how to rebuild self-trust and stop second-guessing yourself at work.
We’re getting into why workplace confidence drops, how bad management impacts your decision-making, and the practical steps to rebuild confidence at work—even if you feel behind, burnt out, or unsure of your abilities.
If you’ve been overthinking every email, doubting your instincts, or feeling like you’re not as capable as you used to be, this is your reset.
28 days ago • 34m 15s •
Ep 247 – What's wrong with your resume (Ins and Outs for 2026)
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Your resume isn’t getting ignored because the job market is “bad.” It’s getting ignored because it’s outdated.
In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly what’s in and what’s out for resumes in 2026—based on what recruiters are actually looking for right now (not what your university career center told you in 2018).
We’re getting into:
The resume mistakes that are quietly killing your chances
Why your “perfect” formatting might be working against you
What hiring managers actually scan for in under 10 seconds
How AI has completely changed what a strong resume looks like
If you’ve been applying, getting ghosted, and wondering what you’re doing wrong… this is your answer.
35 days ago • 22m 21s
Ep 246 – Welcome to Title Theatre: Your Job Title Is Changing, Your Pay Isn’t
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This episode was kind of crazy to research.
In this episode, I’m breaking down what I’m calling “Title Theatre”—the growing trend of companies inflating job titles, rebranding roles, and handing out “promotions” that don’t actually come with more money, power, or stability.
And this isn’t random. It’s happening right now, and it’s being accelerated by AI.
As companies restructure around automation and efficiency, we’re seeing a shift toward “doer roles,” more aggressive (and often masculinized) job titles, and a workplace culture where your title sounds more important… but means less.
So what does that actually mean for your career?
Sources:
https://www.fastcompany.com/91526554/marketing-jobs-engineer-role-job-listings-curious-phenomenon-sign-of-masculinization
42 days ago • 31m 31s •
Ep 245 – Reality TV is taking over my life + a women's health rant (office gossip)
We are so back to chat in between meetings as a little bonus episode! We rant about the drama in the reality TV world, and my (kind of awful) IUD experience! Love you!! What should we rant about next!?
46 days ago • 9m 24s
Ep 244 – Am I Burnt Out… or Is My Job the Problem?
You’re not lazy. You’re not “bad at your job.”
But you might be asking the wrong question.
In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between burnout and a toxic work environment — because they feel the same, but the solution is completely different.
If you’ve been feeling anxious before work, second-guessing your abilities, or wondering why a job that “looks good on paper” is draining you… this is your reality check.
We’ll get into:
The key signs you’re actually burnt out (and how to fix it)
The red flags your workplace is the real problem
Why high performers are the most likely to misdiagnose this
How to rebuild your confidence when work starts messing with your head
What to do next (stay, set boundaries, or leave)
This episode will help you figure out what’s really going on — so you can stop spiraling and start making the right move for your career.
And if you want the step-by-step playbook for navigating this (and everything else your job won’t teach you), you can pre-order my book here: https://emilydurham.org/clock-in
49 days ago • 24m 55s •
Ep 243 – 5 Unspoken Rules EVERY Corporate Women Knows (That Nobody Tells You When You're Hired)
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SIGH. How are we still having to talk about this!?
There are rules in corporate that nobody writes down… but every woman learns the hard way.
In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 unspoken rules every corporate woman knows—the ones that quietly shape your reputation, your promotions, and how seriously you’re taken at work. From navigating likeability vs. competence, to understanding how perception impacts your growth, these are the career realities that HR doesn’t warn you about (but absolutely matter).
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting ahead, this episode will help you understand what’s actually going on behind the scenes—and how to play the game without losing yourself.
Whether you're early in your career or already in the workforce, this is your guide to corporate survival, office politics, and getting ahead as a woman at work.
56 days ago • 39m 59s •
About the show
Emily Durham, aka Emily The Recruiter, is a globally recognized career expert on a mission to help you thrive in your 9-to-5… and beyond. On Clock In, Emily spills the once gatekept industry secrets on everything from job hunting, interviews, networking, office politics, and salary negotiation — to building unshakable confidence, navigating tricky bosses, and even handling the dating world with the same skills that get you hired. Whether you’re chasing a promotion, asking for more money, or just trying to feel like your best self in and out of work, Emily’s no-fluff, no-nonsense advice will help you get ahead without losing your mind.
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